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Date: Jun 27, 2007

RE: Ask Maggie!

Date: Jun 28, 2007

What if you suspect and have reasons to believe that your boyfriend is bi-sexual? There are signals everywhere, but truly have no real proof. I've comfronted him with it, but of course, he denied it frantically. I've been with him for 2 years but until recently (about for 6 to 8 months) wants to spend all his spare time with this other guy, who is a lot older than him. After our confrontation, he now says he can't take my accusations anymore and wants out of the relationship. I am confused but I know that my gut feeling is REAL. What should I do. I do love him but the love he used to have for me is not shifted towards a guy. This is so weird to me. Thank you, Maggie.

Date: Jul 5, 2007

Well Cheyenne it sounds like your boy is Bi or gay. You being his gf at the time had a right to question him about it, so don't feel bad. Who knows maybe he was bi or gay all along he just never wanted to recognize his true feelings. Maybe you all can still be friends and hangout out. Hey he might turn out to be a really good friend.

Date: Jul 12, 2007

Hi Maggie, i am a girl and play in a band. I am falling for a band member. Just wondering if i should mix my love life with my band or should givr it a try. Let me know what you think.

Date: Jul 12, 2007

Conjunto Hottie, it's not always smart to mix personal relationships with your work or in your case your band. It could cause problems in the band down the line if you all break-up. The other said of the coin says that if you don't try then you never know you could be passing on the love of your life. Think about it carefully and just understand that if you all hook up there could be consquences down the line. I hope everything works out well between the both of you. Good Luck

Date: Jul 12, 2007

Maggie hello, great colum. My problem is i am playing for a high profile conjunto at the moment. It's great my pay is good and the guys treat me really well. My probelm is that i feel it's time to go on my own and show the industry what i can do on my own. I play every instrument and i can sing and i even write my own material. I am just afriad to let go i guess. What if i don't make and the guys don't want me back then what? I have heard from numerous people that think i have what it takes, so i guess it's just fear of the unknown that holding me back. What do you think?

Date: Jul 18, 2007

In the Shadows dont be afriad to go out on your own. You never will know what the future holds if you dont try. If you have a set back fine work through it. We all have set backs in life, its how rebound that matters.

Date: Jul 23, 2007

Maggie My brother is always asking to borrow my car, and i say yes. What gets me mad is that everytime he uses he uses all my gas and never evn offers to but anymore in. I am a bad personif I tell him no next time?

Date: Jul 23, 2007

Telling him no does not make you a bad person. I would be upset to if that happened to me. Let him know that if he ever wants to borrow your car again he needs to fill it up. It's the least he can do. If he does not like that fair deal he can find another ride. Gas is very expensive right now, and he should not be taking advantage of you like that.

Date: Aug 1, 2007

Maggie i am trying to impress this girl i like. What's an ideal date to go to the first time? I really really like her and i want to leave her impressed.

Date: Aug 1, 2007

Hi Maggie, i have a recurring nightmare where i am being chased by a clown. Please help me make them stop and stop now! cry

I hate clowns with a passion.

Date: Aug 1, 2007

Maggie my boss always takes credit for my work. I am sic and tired of it what do i do?

Date: Aug 2, 2007

UM wrote:

Maggie i am trying to impress this girl i like. What's an ideal date to go to the first time? I really really like her and i want to leave her impressed.

UM, if it were up to me, a movie and dinner would do just great on a first date. Now I'm from a small town so we don't really have much options. My first date was to the movies, and no dinner! LoL, but it was great cause he was new in my life and the feeling of just being with him was the greatest. If you want to leave her impressed try taking her to a more expensive restaurant, aside from the fast food findings. Then you can either take her for a stroll in the park for a romantic talk, take a blanket lay down under the stars and talk the night away. Or take her to the movies and relax, because whether the date is going to be impressing to her or not if she really likes you just being with you is going to be her main concern.

Date: Aug 2, 2007

DTC wrote:

Hi Maggie, i have a recurring nightmare where i am being chased by a clown. Please help me make them stop and stop now! I hate clowns with a passion.

DTC, could it be that there is someone in your life hiding something from you, hence hiding behind the clown face. Or it could be that you are keeping something hidden within yourself, therefore running away from the clowns, having something held within. i guess the only way to get rid of these dreams is to conquer your fear. Either sit down and watch killer clowns from outter space and realize they aren't real, no just kidding. You need to figure out what exactly is making you dream of these clowns, find the main source. Are you hiding or keeping something in, are you afraid to be yourself infront of people, exactly what hiding behind all the clown make up would be. If that doesn't work try thinking of happy thoughts before bed. Read books to keep focus on something else, watch a good movie before bed. And if that don't work you might wanna see a good psychiatrist hmm

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Big Bob wrote:

Maggie my boss always takes credit for my work. I am sic and tired of it what do i do?

Big Bob, it's time to stand up for yourself. Tell him how you feel about the situation, don't be afraid maybe he will understand if he heard it first hand from yourself. Never let anyone walk all over you. It will continue to proceed if nothing is done, and probly get worse and we don't want that. People like that don't think of anyone but themselves, so he probly doesn't know any better. Talk to him and if he doesn't like it then tell him to shove it and go find a work place that will appreciate "your" work and give you credit you deserve.

Date: Aug 2, 2007

thanks Maggie i think it is time to put my foot down and speak up!

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Hey Thanks Maggie

Date: Aug 2, 2007

You all are very welcome biggrin

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Maggie whats a good way to deal with boredom? I am stuck in a damn desert 24-7 lol, any advice?

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Maggie is it wise for me to try to date my ex gf's sister? The girl really likes me but it seems kinda weird. What do you think?

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Maggie my girl left me for my her co-worker!!!!!!!!!!!!! cry

HELP

Date: Aug 2, 2007

US ARMY GUY wrote:

Maggie whats a good way to deal with boredom? I am stuck in a damn desert 24-7 lol, any advice?

LoL, damn this is a good one. Says the one who is in constant boredom. Ummm, cheeeeeeesus I can't think of anything other than the internet. Have you tried reading books, listening to CD's, watching DVD's on a portable DVD player, playing cards, have someone send you a hand held psp, write a book, read magazines, ask me questions biggrin

, call someone(if you have a cell I guess), ride camals (just kidding), build sand castles (well I don't know if there is moist sand for that), make crafts sell them on ebay, create a myspace and interact, go on chat rooms, talk to yourself (hell that works for me aww

), ok, ok you got me I can't think anymore, but I hope you liked the advice, hehe.

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Aww i am sorry to hear that Tube it's ok i have a cousin i will tell about her about you ok? Tres where are you? Maggie Tres is ignoring me furious

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Hi Maggie great colum today. Tube i am sorry for your loss. Don't worry i am sure a tender cut of beef like you has alot of options.

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Peter T. wrote:

Maggie is it wise for me to try to date my ex gf's sister? The girl really likes me but it seems kinda weird. What do you think?

Peter, I don't think that's such a good idea, unless you like drama in your life. Cause if you hook up with her, there's probly ganna be a lot of it. Your ex, unless she is understanding will probly be very upset with you and her sis. I don't think you want to be in that bind. Unless you're willing to take chances the choice is yours. I'd say move on from that circle and find someone else, there are plenty of fish in the sea, so start reelin them in. biggrin

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Da Real Tube Steak wrote:

Maggie my girl left me for my her co-worker!!!!!!!!!!!!!HELP

Ah Tubey, if she left you, you deserve alot better. Really, don't even stop to think about it. I'm sure there are lots of girls dying to date you and have a meaty date with you. LoL, wait that didn't sound too good. Anyways, don't be sad, move forward and just realize that the experience with her helped you for your future. Look ahead in life, don't ever look back. You have a bright future ahead of you and Mrs. Right is out there, but you gotta keep lookin and don't give up. biggrin

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Blondie, I don't even think Tres has been on today, he's probly still asleep. LoL. And JSK thanks for your comment.

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Maggie hey i like a guy but he shows no interest in me how long before it's time to move on? cry

Date: Aug 2, 2007

JSK wrote:

Maggie hey i like a guy but he shows no interest in me how long before it's time to move on?

JSK, have you ever thought that maybe he likes guys cry

, probly not but if you've liked him for a while with the same result, I say move on now. If that relationship was meant to be then it will be, but in the future. You're young, go out and have fun, meet people, and I'm pretty sure you will find someone that feels the same about you. So don't worry, chin up, and have faith in yourself. smile

P.S. I heard the Tubester is single now. LoL, just kiddin.

Date: Aug 2, 2007

Thanks Maggie i think i am moving on. I send this guy signals and nada, it's bullsh#t sorry i am just frustrated. Thanks alot for your help. The way i see it is it's this guy's loss not mine. I am nice sweet and pretty oh well. Tube want to go to a movie lol

Date: Aug 2, 2007

JSK, exactly, you need to think like that. You deserve better, if he can't realize that you like him. Then yes it is his loss for sure.

Date: Aug 3, 2007

Maggie help my bestfriend's birthday tommorrow and i don't know what to buy her. What do you but a girl that has everything?

Date: Aug 3, 2007

Kelly, I'm sure she would like anything you give her. How bout some perfume or body spray. Maybe a cd compilation of all the songs she likes. A best friends necklace, a night out, jewlery, make-up, books, how about a journal every girl has to have one of those. Last and most importantly how about just a home-made cake and a card, anything from the heart I'm sure she would greatly appreciate it. smile

Date: Aug 3, 2007

Maggie hey what's happening? Just writing to ask you a question. I have this girl who i like but the problem is she is my brother's ex. It feels wrong, is it? Tell me what you think i should do. Thanks alot

Date: Aug 3, 2007

Hi Jacob, I am doing quite well, I had this question earlier but opposite. Anyways, I think it's ok to crush on her, but I also think it's a bad idea to try to make something of it. Especially if you and your bro are close. You don't wanna start the flame in the fire, so take safety first. Talk to your brother before you try anything, so that way you know he's ok with it. You know that jealousy is always there no matter what, so see what's up with him first. But that's just my opinion, if you really, really, really like her and don't care how anyone feels about it then I say go for it. Just remember things happen for reasons.