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Maggie Hi there. I go to college and am interested in alot of girls here. Problem is they dont seem to notice me (bummer). Can you give me some advice to help me be noticed. Thanks and i love all the hard work you do on the site.

Xman,

Thanks . Wow, so you work with me huh, don't be shy I don't bite. haha. I wouldn't start an office romance, considering the situation you don't wanna feel awkward incase things go sour. If you really like her, start off slowly and be her friend. From there you can take it, and how it ends up is in yalls hands. If she's a good sport to try and it doesn't work and can still be your friend without jealousy then that's great. Not all people are that strong. Just take it day by day and don't be a weirdo and mack on her constantly, some girls find that weird and annoying. Just be flirty, funny, and friendly (The 3 F's in dating). I just made that up, I'm so awesome I think I need to copyright that. Haha, anyways. Just don't move to fast like I said and see where it goes. And like I always say, things happen for reasons. You just have to figure out why.

Love this section of this and i seen you help alot of people so i hope you can help me too. Here goes.. I am dating this girl but she is not really my type, i am really into her bestfriend and her friend is into me. We want to be together, but it will feel weird. How can we make it a smooth transtion? I know it won't be easy but any advice is really great at this point. Than you so much and i look forward to your response.

RNIII

Hello my husband says i am not passionate enough any ideas on how to kick start our relationship. I am willing to try new things. Thanks your the best, i try to read this everyday

Thanks Maggie i will do that!

Thanks Maggie your advice is priceless and i will try it starting next week!

I Love this stuff, now i need some help. My brother and i are twins. He gets all the girls and i don't i don't get it??? We look alike so what do you think i am doing wrong? People tell me i try to hard, can girls tell when a guy is trying to hard to hookup? Thanks!

Thanks Maggie, your right. I will let u know how things go.

I'm not to sure what the high school girlies are into, seeing that I haven't been in high school for 7 years. Wow, lol. My type of guys that I love are those who dress in the Pac Sun, A E style. I think that the fashion from Pac Sun is awesome and I love it when I see guys dress in Hurley, Billabong, etc, with jeans (not those ugly saggy ones you can see all your chones either, that's disgusting), and those cute shoes like vans, converse, or nike shox. I"m into the whole surf style I guess. I wear roxy and volcom myself. Seeing that most teenagers shop in those kind of stores I think you can score with the ladies dressin that way. Just don't go baggy if you decide against this style. Get clothes that fit, not those shirts that go down to your knees, or those jeans that are like 5 sizes to big. I think that looks dumb, but some people like it so hey. If you decide to go more classy, then you can go with polo shirts (not exactly the brand polo), with fitted jeans (not the skinny jeans either, oh god please no.), with some nike shox, or some converse (chuck taylors are awesome on guys). Other thing I find hott on guys are their hair styles. I love it when you all have spiky hair, I think that's so hott on a guy. I don't dig the flat tops, mullets, or cereal bowl looks. (Sorry to those who dig those or have that style, keep rockin it if it floats yalls boat :] ) Well good luck with the style, hope I've helped a bit. And if you don't have $$ to shop at those places you can actually go to Marshalls or Ross and they have the same brands for cheaper.

Maggie or Carlos

How can i upload a picture from my computer so i can post it on the site new topic post

ok, let me try.  was trying that but still couldn't

thanks

Hi Janie,

Sorry for the lateness. 1st thing to do is talk to him. Make a convo with him. "Hi, did you get the assignment yesterday?" "Hi, do you understand the assignment?" So on so forth. Try to be friendly, eventually movin inwards to a flirt. (Make sure he's single) Drop your pencil, ask him to get it for you. (If he sits by you, oh God, please don't chunk it across the room) lol. Act like you're interested in what he's talkin about. Ask him to study with you, or for coffee or a soda pop. If you have never talked to him before it's ganna be harder to grab his attention. So when you have a chance plow into his space. Ease drop on his convo's to see what his interests are. Try getting into his study group, or friend clique. So many ways I can tell you to get his attention, but i think the most important one is just knowing him first. So try talkin to him, eventually be-friending him, and then the flirting comes in. Give it time, if at first you don't succeed, try, try again. :)

Joseph,

Do you want me to slap you now or later? Lol. This is "your girlfriends'" sis you are talking about. Do you really want to hurt the relationship that you have with her, or even ruin theirs? My advice to you is to #1: break up with your girlfriend since you're even thinkin about cheating on her (with blood thank you ) (no one deserves to be cheated on) #2 try to hook up with her sis, but be waiting for a serious butt whoopin from either one of them.  Her sis should be ashamed to even think about doin that to her own blood. Haha, and you should too for trying to be a pimp. But the best advice I can give you is do as you will, it's your life, and it's in your hands. But remember, what goes around comes around, with vengence.

I need a tan Maggie do girls notice that on a guy? Like if i am a little pale? If so what can i do

Hi Pale male,

I'm Pale Woman, let's go tan together. You pay, hehe. Well basically my legs, but anyways, back to you. I'm not goin to lie, but yes "some" girls notice the paleness. But some girls like it, especially the vampire lovers (a.k.a. twilight gals). I personally don't pay any attention to you guys paleness, unless of course it's very uneven. Like if your legs are white but the rest of you is tan. (Like me ) My husband is pale, but at least he's evenly pale. lol. If it bothers you that much, why don't you pull up a lawn chair and lay by the pool, or go to the beach and lay out there for a while (don't for get the tanning lotion and sun screen, always protect yourself from skin cancer). You can always do the salon method. I think you have to get nakie, and lay in a booth thingy. You can also do the cheap way and go to wal-mart and buy a spray on tan, the color you want. I've tried that before, but I turned my skin orange, I looked like a carrot, but then again, I probly did it wrong. Other than that, I think you should just be yourself, and not try to change. If they like you, they'll like you, if they don't you don't need them.


Mags

-- Edited by Carlos at 16:34, 2009-03-11

Jacob,

Whether she likes it or not she needs to understand that the girl has been by your side as your best friend for a very long time. I'm sure she's had best friends that were guys. You need to set aside some time to talk with her about this situation. If she likes the idea or not, if she cares enough she'd try her hardest to stop the jealousy. Tell her how you feel about her, and what your friend means to you. Tell her you care for her and your friend differently even though both have the same attention. If she can't understand that, it's her problem she needs to deal with. You aren't doing nothing wrong with having the opposite sex as a best friend. Remember, "relationships come and go, but it's friendship that lasts a life time"

Hey Pete, I could not change your name, but I have disabled your account. So you may want to try making an other profile. Let me know how it goes.