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Maggie i got a new job, i how do i tell this girl that i really like and that i been dating for like 3 months i am moving far away? What should i do please help

Maggie this guy likes me and he is really nice, but he really is not my type how do i let him down gently? Thanks

Hey Viv! I'm in the chatroom! get in there!

Sorry i been behind guys, i have had alot of work to do, but i will catch up real soon i promise!

Ya back off if you value your relationship with your friend.

Lo wrote:

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Maggie i have this annoying roomate who refuses to clean the house when they make a mess, how do i deal with them, while trying to be nice?

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Hi Lo, again sorry for the lateness. You as well have probably handled this situation since I am sure you are over with the semester by now and probly have a new room-mate. But honestly, there is no nice way for this situation. Be polite but aggresive. Just let them know that it bothers you to see their mess, and that there are other people in the house besides them. That they should respect everyone else. If they shrug you off, then two can play at that game, right. Or you can always find another roomie.

Oscar wrote:

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Maggie i like my best friends sister, is it wise to go for her, or should i back off?

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Hi Oscar, just to let you know, that previous answer to you was not me. I'm never that blunt, I always go into explanation. Well if he is your best friend maybe you should think about the situation first. Will it get in the way of your friendship? What happens if you were to hurt her or break up with her? You see her bro all the time, therefore she'd be there to remind you. Can you live with seeing her with another guy if that were to happen? You just need to think about all the benefits and draw backs before goin forward if you already haven't. Talk with your bf first to see if it's ok with him, although I don't think it's his business. Everyone has their own life to live, but you know how it goes. Big or Small brothers are always protective against their sisters.

Maggie hi, i have a question i hope you can help. I like a co-worker is it ok if i ask him out? Am i out of line cause we work together? Please help, thanks

thanks for the advice Maggie your the best!

Hi TJ,

Halloween costumes for guys are easy. I've been trying to get Carlos to wear one, but he's a party pooper. Anyways here's a few ideas:

Batman
Superman
Spiderman
Pirate
Darth Vader
Ghostbuster
Skeleton
Mummy
Dracula
Clown
A Girl
Elvis
Prisoner
Santa Claus
Banana
Disco Guy
Hippie
Ninja
Mobster
Peter Pan
Robin Hood
Pimp
Shrek
Priest
Jester
Boxer
Character from Scooby Doo
umpa lumpa
the Burger King guy
Iron Man
Ghost
The Joker
Freddie Kruger
Jason
Mike Myers
I can keep on going and going. If it were up to me, I've been trying to get Carlos dress as a Ghostbuster , but I think one of the popular costumes this year is the Joker from Batman. Well goodluck.

Hi Nervous,

No need to give in to look cool. It's your life you live it how you want to, not by any other's rules. Easy as 1-2-3 just say no, and go do your own thing. They aren't ganna push you away for not doing something you have no reason to do. And if they continue to pressure you, just note that you have no need for friends like that either. Take charge of your own life, and don't worry what others think. Remember that your awesome no matter what.

Hi Nickie,

I'm sorry to hear that. How long have you and your current boyfriend been together? If it has been for a short time, it's understandable that the thought of your ex will pop up. Just for the reason that you were used to him, especially if you were with him longer. I can only imagine the pain you're going through. I'd try talking to him, and if he doesnt' want to listen to your explanation, make him. Write him a letter, you know he'd read it even if he says he won't. Tell him the truth, how you feel about him and it was total accidental. And next time you get your groove on keep it quiet.

P.S. Don't worry to much about it. The more you worry, the worse it gets. If he cares he'll come back to you. Just say you're sorry.

Maggie when my girlfriend and i go out she likes to dress so that she shows alot of cleavage. How do i tell her not to dress like that without sounding jealous? Thanks Maggie

Thanks Maggie, your advice is priceless

Hi James,

She probably grew up with those habits and doesn't know any better. That's what I was used to. I knew no better. Until I found a cheap a$$ husband that starves me. *Coughs* just kiddin. You might wanna start getting her out of that habit now while you have a chance if you think this relationship is moving forward. Surprise her with reservations to a higher class restaurant with healthy food choices. Or cook her a home made meal so she can get used to the taste. Spoil her more like that so she can get used to eating that way. I didn't start eating healthy until I got with my husband, and adapted from his habits. Now you open my fridge and all I have are health junk. LoL, would I die for a freakin piece of cake! Anyways, if that doesn't work talk to her about it. She'll probably get offended, but at least you'll get it off your back.

DR,

I lose a crap load of hair, I should open up my own wig business with all the hair I lose in a darn day. Transplants look tacky, you can tell it's not your own. I'd just leave it be. No-one should judge you on your appearance, and if they do then you have no business knowing them. If you feel more comfty being bald then hey, go for it. I personally don't dig the bald guys, but that is just me. Lots of girls find a bald guy sexy. I'd just be yourself and play off the male pattern baldness. Be proud of what you got, some people wish they can even have hair at all. For example, people going through chemo therapy. Just chill and don't worry about it, it's your judgement on your looks don't care what others think. Wear caps if it makes you feel better. As long as you have a rockin personality the chics will dig you. : )